Don’t delude yourself into thinking something’s working when it’s not, or you’re gonna get fixated on a bad solution.
不要欺骗自己,认为某事正在工作,而实际上它并没有,否则你会固守一个糟糕的解决方案。
The only relationship that can make both partners happy is one in which sentimentality has no place and neither partner makes any claim on the life and freedom of the other.
Live your own dream, not the expectations of others.