You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings.
你不能让自己感觉到你感觉不到的东西，但你可以不顾自己的感受去做正确的事情。
You have to be able to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously.
有时候你必须迷失自己才能找到自己。