向人求助之时应该去求真正胸襟开阔的人；帮助别人时要帮助真正需要帮助的人。

"Traveling is a brutality. It forces you to trust strangers and to lose sight of all that familiar comfort of home and friends. You are constantly off balance. Nothing is yours except the essential things: air, sleep, dreams, the sea, the sky - all things tending towards the eternal or what we imagine of it."

事前考虑清楚，可是一旦到了该行动的时候，就要毫不犹豫，放手一搏。

I'm not bossy. I'm the boss.

You have to stand up and say, 'There's nothing wrong with me or my shape or who I am.'