A real decision is measured by the fact that you've taken a new action. If there's no action, you haven't truly decided.
When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions, a few of which I had thought about, some of which I had sort of stumbled on, and many that I had no control over whatsoever.
译文:蛮横无理的泼妇,啼哭怒骂的招数不过是那些而已,只要静下心来,镇定自若,泰然处之,她们便会自觉终止。挑拨离间,搬弄是非的人,情况看上去虽然很紧迫,但如果能淡然处之,置之不理,那些人就会自觉没趣,立马消失。赏析:世上什么样的人都有,我们越较真,对方越会咬着不放,只要我们不予理睬,看淡别人的嬉笑怒骂,无视别人的挑拨离间,对方就会自讨没趣,事情就会顺遂如意。
To write is to fight against oblivion.