【解释】幸福不可强求，保持愉快的心情，更能感受到幸福；灾祸难以避免，消除怨恨他人的念头，就能远离灾祸。
Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.