The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

Winning is not always the barometer of getting better.

I'm interested in the edges of things, where they meet and overlap.

写作是一种勇气之举——你必须愿意暴露自己最深层的想法。

预测未来的最好方法就是创造未来。