I not only came to understand that 'change' was a part of Josie, and that I should be prepared to adapt to it, but I also began to realize that this was not a trait unique to Josie; I came to understand that people often feel the need to present a carefully prepared version of themselves to the outside world - much like arranging a shop window - and once the moment has passed, there's no need to take it too much to heart.

跳著舞的流水啊！当你途中的泥沙为你的歌声和流动哀求时，你可愿意担起他们跛足的重担？

事实上，你无法控制别人如何看待你。