屋漏者民去之，水浅者鱼逃之，树高者鸟宿之，德厚者士趋之。
房屋漏水了，百姓就会离去；河水太浅了，鱼儿就会逃离；树木长高了，鸟儿就会栖息；施政仁德了，士子就会归附。点评：《论语》曾言「德不孤，必有邻」孔子告诫人们要不断提高道德修养。
最终，我们记住的不是敌人的话语，而是朋友的沉默。
Psychology must be a science of life, not just of the laboratory.
Stay true to yourself and your vision.
Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason， ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again， and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.