语出西汉·桓宽《盐铁论·疾贪》。表:古代测量日影以计时的标杆。要想让影子正,就要先将标杆树直;要想让下面的人清廉,就要先自己做到清廉。说明上位是下位的表率。
"Sometimes, you have to be apart from people you love, but that doesn't make you love them any less. Sometimes, it makes you love them more."
喜欢说话而又不恰当,不如少说话为好。博学多识但不知道反省自己,一定会出问题。孔子说“言寡尤,行寡悔,禄在其中矣” ,言语上减少过失,行为上减少悔恨,多反省自己,慎言慎行,成功就不会远了。