The whole difference between construction and creation is exactly this: that a thing constructed can only be loved after it is constructed; but a thing created is loved before it exists.

"You can’t just sit down and write a book. That’s not how books get written. Books get written by living your life, by being open to the world, by paying attention."

情绪是进化出来的适应机制，用于协调其他心理机制解决特定的适应性问题。

If you think about something at three o'clock in the morning and then again at noon the next day, you get different answers...