You build your life around what you fear, and then you spend your life being afraid.
Life is a balance between holding on and letting go.
Quality is not an act, it is a habit.
我认为应该避免的另一件事是极度强烈的意识形态，因为它会使人的思想白菜化......当你年轻时，很容易沉浸在旧思想中，当你宣布自己是忠实成员时......你就会逐渐毁掉自己的思想。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.
The key to success is to keep growing in all areas of life - mental, emotional, spiritual, as well as physical.