释义：男女都守持正固（坚持正确的、忠诚不改变），是天地间的大道。家人中有严君，严君是对父母的称谓。父亲遵守父道，儿子遵守子道，兄遵兄道，弟遵弟道，丈夫守夫道，妻子遵守妇道，则家道正固；家道正固则天下就会安定。

Everyone is shy. Other people are waiting for you to introduce yourself to them， they are waiting for you to send them an email， they are waiting for you to ask them on a date. Go ahead.

What I think I've been talking about really is success and failure. And one of the interesting things about success is that we think we know what it means. If I said that there's somebody behind the screen who's very successful, certain ideas would immediately come to mind. You'd think that person might have made a lot of money, achieved renown in some field. My own theory of success -- I'm somebody who's very interested in success, I really want to be successful, always thinking, how can I be more successful? But as I get older, I'm also very nuanced about what that word "success" might mean.