You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.
【解释】仁慈的人爱人,有礼貌的人尊敬人,爱别人的人,别人也会爱他;尊敬别人的人,别人也会尊敬他。
Given the choice between the experience of pain and nothing, I would choose pain.