"You can't control everything. Sometimes you just need to relax and have faith that things will work out. Let go a little and just let life happen."
The tyrant dies and his rule is over, the martyr dies and his rule begins.
What's terrible is to pretend that second-rate is first-rate. To pretend that you don't need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.