【释义】：礼节重在相互回应。送出礼遇而对方不回应，这是不合礼数的；接受了别人的礼遇却不回报，同样也是不符合礼的要求。
使自己成为一个对象，使自己被动，与成为一个被动的对象是非常不同的。
The art of competing, I’d learned from track, was the art of forgetting, and I now reminded myself of that fact. You must forget your limits. You must forget your doubts, your pain, your past.
