如果你做的很好，这是件令人愉快的事。相反的情况，就很令人沮丧。社会学家Emil，Durkheim分析发现，这提高了自杀率，追求个人主义的发达国家的自杀率，高过于世界上其它地方，原因是人们把发生在自己身上的事情，全当作自己的责任，人们拥有成功，也拥有失败。

洞察力是对问题各部分之间关系的突然理解。

我们必须像投资技术一样投资于人；两者对进步都至关重要。

The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

He allowed himself to be swayed by his conviction that human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but that life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.

无关紧要的东西而已。如果对于那些懂得生活的人这样讲话，会让我的故事更具有真实感一些。