多言而不当,不如其寡也。博学而不自反,必有邪。
喜欢说话而又不恰当,不如少说话为好。博学多识但不知道反省自己,一定会出问题。孔子说“言寡尤,行寡悔,禄在其中矣” ,言语上减少过失,行为上减少悔恨,多反省自己,慎言慎行,成功就不会远了。
Generally speaking, envy, resentment, and self-pity are disastrous modes of thoughts.Self-pity gets fairly close to paranoia, and paranoia is one of the very hardest things to reverse.
"Language is the house of being. In its home man dwells."
You are stronger than you think.