子曰：“君子周而不比，小人比而不周。”
孔子说：“君子团结群众而不拉帮结派，小人拉帮结派而不团结群众。”
心理过程之所以存在，是因为它们服务于生命的延续。
倾听是一种参与行为。
【释义】父母过度警告会重塑儿童大脑，使他们习惯性扫描危险而非探索可能。
We were the people who were not in the papers. We lived in the blank white spaces at the edges of print. It gave us more freedom. We lived in the gaps between the stories.
