改变的秘诀在于集中所有精力不是与旧事物斗争,而是建设新事物。
喜欢说话而又不恰当,不如少说话为好。博学多识但不知道反省自己,一定会出问题。孔子说“言寡尤,行寡悔,禄在其中矣” ,言语上减少过失,行为上减少悔恨,多反省自己,慎言慎行,成功就不会远了。
译文:我本来是一介平民,在南阳务农亲耕,只想在乱世中苟且保全性命,不谋求在诸侯之中闻名显达。
I don't want to be a celebrity. I want to be a memory.
A writer is someone who spends years patiently trying to discover the second being inside him.