True success comes from adding value to others, not just to yourself.
Society can and does execute its own mandates, and if it issues wrong mandates instead of right, or any mandates at all in things with which it ought not to meddle, it practices a social tyranny more formidable than many kinds of political oppression, since, though not usually upheld by such extreme penalties, it leaves fewer means of escape, penetrating much more deeply into the details of life, and enslaving the soul itself.
肉腐了就会生蛆,鱼枯死了就会生虫,懈怠疏忽忘记了做人准则就会招来灾祸。
如果你可以不去寻找别人的认同,那么你的力量就是无穷的。