我们都受无法控制的力量塑造。

When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions， a few of which I had thought about， some of which I had sort of stumbled on， and many that I had no control over whatsoever.

Sometimes the detective isn't solving the crime as much as being consumed by it.

谷子成熟了才能收获，果子熟了才能剥开皮。比喻凡事不可急于求成。