我对自由意志和先验宿命的理解：它们是一样的。

When someone really hears you without passing judgment on you, without trying to take responsibility for you, without trying to mold you, it feels damn good!

不经过一年中最寒冷的时候，无法知道松柏是最后凋谢的；不经过艰难的考验，无法知道一个人是不是真正的君子。