赏析：指出知道满足的人不会被利益所累，真正安闲自得的人不会因为失去而恐惧，注重内心修养的人不会因为没有地位而惭愧。

我不是黑帮，我不是暴徒，我只是一个取得了一些成功的普通人。

The writer must believe that what he is doing is the most important thing in the world. And he must hold to this illusion even when he knows it is not true.

Silence is argument carried out by other means.

解读：人际关系需要持续投入情感、关怀来维系，只想索取不愿付出，关系迟早破裂，提醒日常用心经营人脉，多给予温暖。