You cannot always control what goes on outside. But you can always control what goes on inside.
子贡问怎样实现仁,孔子说:“工人要做好工,必先磨好工具。生活在那里,就要追随那里的品德高尚的领导,结交那里的仁义之士。”
The dead are never far from us. They're in our hearts and on our minds and they always will be.
生活中的唯一限制是你为自己设定的限制。