Life is like music。It must be composed by ear,feeling and instinct,not by rule.
过去是一个跟随我们的影子,但它不必定义我们。
司马牛忧伤地说:“别人都有兄弟,唯独我没有。”子夏说:“我听说过:‘死生有命,富贵在天’。君子敬业而不犯错误,对人恭敬而有礼。四海之内,皆兄弟。君子担心什么没有兄弟?”
the most famous composer in the world but was utterly miserable most of the time, and of the reasons was because he always overspent his income.This was Mozart.If Mozart couldn't get by with this kind of asinine conduct, I don't think you should try.