Advice like these are not laws. They are like hats. If one doesn’t fit， try another.

解释：能吞下船的大鱼，不会在细浅的溪水里遨游；在天空高飞的鸿鹄，不会在肮脏的水池栖息。

People are afraid to pursue their most important dreams, because they feel that they don't deserve them, or that they'll be unable to achieve them. We, their hearts, become fearful just thinking of loved ones who go away forever, or of moments that could have been good but weren't, or of treasures that might have been found but were forever hidden in the sands.