I don’t like to be second. I like to be first.

Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.

【释义】喜欢高谈阔论的人，会因为说话太多而失言。【延伸】祸从口出，言多必失，话太多的人，说得越多，往往错的就越多，而且，没有人会喜欢一个多嘴多舌的人。会说话是好事，要讲分寸，说过头了，还不如不说。

"我写作是为了摧毁影子，但最终总是创造了它。"