Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason, ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again, and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.
To overcome the anxieties and depressions of contemporary life, individuals must become independent of the social environment to the degree that they no longer respond exclusively in terms of its rewards and punishments.
译文:立下难以实现的志向,才能吃别人不可能吃的苦,做别人不能做的事,千秋功业,才有得指望;对人对事若发现错误而不忍心去指责、纠正,那么必然会因为不忍心去说而造成祸害。
If everything was perfect, you would never learn and you would never grow.
The more you look, the more you see.