Don't look for the needle in the haystack. Just buy the haystack!
I decided, very early on, just to accept life unconditionally; I never expected it to do anything special for me, yet I seemed to accomplish far more than I had ever hoped. Most of the time it just happened to me without my ever seeking it.
为新工作谈判薪水的最佳时机是在对方表示要你之后,而不是之前。否则就变成了双方先说出一个数额的胆小鬼博弈,但在你工作之前让雇佣者给出一个薪资水平对你来说是有益的。