惜花须检点，爱月不梳头。大抵选他肌骨好，不搽红粉也风流。
【译文】做人不要到处拈花惹草，应洁身自好。只要五官长得好，即使不搽脂抹粉也很漂亮。
The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It’s getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again.
成功的关键在于敢于思考非传统的想法。