What's terrible is to pretend that second-rate is first-rate. To pretend that you don't need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.
天下是主体,君主是客体。
从本质上来讲,儿童的爱是单纯的,他爱,是为了获得感官印象,这种印象又给他提供了生长的养料。