永远不要问理发师你是否需要理发。
When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions， a few of which I had thought about， some of which I had sort of stumbled on， and many that I had no control over whatsoever.
故事不像一条需要跟随的路...它更像一座房子。你走进去并在那里停留一会儿。