发现可能极限的唯一方法,就是超越它们进入不可能。
"We are all haunted by the ghosts of our younger selves."
真正当代的唯一方式是成为不合时宜的。
In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
For systems, the analogue of a face-lift is to add to the control graph an edge that creates a cycle, not just an additional node.