The future isn't written in the stars. There are no guarantees. So claim your adulthood. Be intentional.
In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.
我不考虑失败。我考虑下一步。