【释义】善于为别人着想的人能够为自己着想，善于管理别人的人能够管理好自己。

The idea that we will make a society where literally everybody is graded, the good at the top, bad at the bottom, exactly done as it should be, is impossible. There are simply too many random factors: accidents, accidents of birth, accidents of things dropping on people's heads, illnesses, etc. We will never get to grade them, never get to grade people as they should.

生活的艺术在于知道何时坚持，何时放手。