Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

科学表明，我们的头脑会欺骗我们关于什么会让我们快乐。

晏子春秋

I’m not here to fit in, I’m here to stand out.