You must not deny the story teller’s right to tell the story as he pleases.
The world is full of people who will tell you what you can't do. You don't need them. You already know what you can't do. What you need is someone to tell you what you can.
我想这就是爱人的一部分:你必须放弃一些东西。有时你甚至不得不放弃他们。