One isn't born one's self. One is born with mass of expectations, a mass of other people's ideas.
人并非生来就是自己。人出生时背负着一大堆期望，一大堆别人的想法。
The challenge of acting is to find the humanity in every character, no matter how different they may seem from you.
The advancement of mathematics is through the continuous questioning of established truths.
我不是天后，我只是对我的工作充满热情。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
You can't change what you refuse to confront.