你无法控制发生在你身上的事情,但你可以控制你如何回应。
如果行善不是发自内心,那就不会长久。比如被捐款、被做义工等等,都是一锤子买卖,因为不是他自愿的。
The will of the people, moreover, practically means the will of the most numerous or the most active part of the people; the majority, or those who succeed in making themselves accepted as the majority; the people, consequently may desire to oppress a part of their number; and precautions are as much needed against this as against any other abuse of power. The limitation, therefore, of the power of government over individuals loses none of its importance when the holders of power are regularly accountable to the community, that is, to the strongest party therein
I’m not afraid to be vulnerable. It’s part of being human.