For me they normally happen, these career crises, often, actually, on a Sunday evening, just as the sun is starting to set, and the gap between my hopes for myself and the reality of my life starts to diverge so painfully that I normally end up weeping into a pillow.

我喜欢做女人，也喜欢掌控自己的生活。

I'm not trying to be perfect, I'm just trying to be better