Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason, ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again, and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.
It is justice, not charity, that is wanting in the world.
无法达成的目标才是我的目标,迂回曲折的路才是我想走的路。
I think the most important thing is to be true to yourself and to be honest with yourself.