【译文】 孔子说：“不在那个位置上，就不要想那个位置上的事。”

Once you've accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you.

我想成为那个激励你的女孩，而你又激励着我。

"The stories we tell shape our reality, but they also have the power to trap us in illusions."

君子的学问，关键在于自身。外界的毁誉荣辱，不仅不会动摇其心志，反而会成为磨砺自己的机会。