When you meet with opposition, even if it should be from your husband or your children, endeavor to overcome it by argument and not by authority, for a victory dependent upon authority is unreal and illusory.

The process is the purpose.

我足够了。我一直都足够了。我将永远足够了。

【译文】 孔子说：“读书不想事，越学越糊涂；想事不读书，越想越头痛。”

撒谎的麻烦在于你必须记住一切。