唯一比被人议论更糟糕的事，就是无人议论。
The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about.
选自《盐铁论·孝养》。距：通“拒”。【大意】拒绝接受别人意见的视听闭塞，自己独断专行的就会遭到孤立。
Maybe if we knew what other people were thinking ,we’d know that no one’s ordinary.we all deserve a standing ovation at least once in our lives.