写作是我唯一向自己解释自己生活的方式。
People with a clear sense of identity know who they are and what they stand for. They have a strong sense of self and are not easily swayed by others.
译文:对待外人应该宽容大度,但对待自己的子孙后代一定不能宽厚。人情往来一定要周到,但儿女嫁娶之事不必铺张浪费。赏析:父母教育子女一定不能纵容溺爱,否则就是害了孩子一生,正所谓惯子如杀子。父母应该给孩子树立榜样,确立做事原则。嫁女儿一定要选择人品贤良的女婿,一定不要向婆家索要很多聘礼;娶儿媳妇要娶品行端庄、秀外慧中、知书达礼的女子,而不要贪图娘家丰厚的嫁妆。
Whether you come from a council estate or a country estate, your success will be determined by your own confidence and fortitude.