The right of nature... is the liberty each man hath, to use his own power, as he will himself, for the preservation of his own nature; that is to say, of his own life.
If winning becomes too important in a game, change the rules to make it more fun. Changing rules can become the new game.
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.
The world is full of beauty, but it is also full of pain and suffering.