你无法预先把点点滴滴串连起来，只有在回顾时才能明白它们是如何联系在一起的。

The world we see that seems so insane is the result of a belief system that is not working. To perceive the world differently， we must be willing to change our belief system， let the past slip away， expand our sense of now， and dissolve the fear in our minds.

The more you deny something, the more attention it gets.

我们肩上背负的责任重在，必须小心谨慎地了解可能可能会泯灭孩子精神的原因，并要融入孩子的世界。