最重要的是拥有一个孩子，其他一切都是次要的。
The most important thing is to have a child. Everything else is secondary.
译文： 深敛沉着、敦厚持重是第一等资质，光明磊落、豪迈雄健是第二等资质，聪明机智、多才明辨是第三等资质。
You forget what you want to remember, and you remember what you want to forget.
"We are all, in some way, exiles from ourselves."
