从长远来看，经济前景是乐观的，但从长远来看，我们都死了。

I'm the reason your boyfriend's so stressed.

In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

Lock up your libraries if you like; but there is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the freedom of my mind.