死者离我们并不远。他们在我们的心中和思想中，最终，他们是我们所拥有的一切。
"The dead are never far from us. They're in our hearts and in our minds and in the end, they're all we've got."
Failure gave me an inner security that I had never attained by passing examinations. Failure taught me things about myself that I could have learned no other way. I discovered that I had a strong will, and more discipline than I had suspected; I also found out that I had friends whose value was truly above the price of rubies.
"To understand the present, we must first understand the past."
我是女权主义者，但我认为浪漫对我这一代人来说已经有点被剥夺了。我认为人们在小说中与之联系的是这种压倒性的、无所不包的爱的想法——它比其他任何事物都更重要和特别。
